Divorce can raise custody concerns that civilian families do not face. Serving at Fort Gordon (formerly Fort Eisenhower) means you deal with deployments, training rotations and sudden relocations that may disrupt parenting schedules and strain communication. If you overlook these factors, you may face custody negotiation conflicts at the worst time.
How Georgia law and military status intersect
Georgia courts decide custody based on the child’s best interests. However, the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) still allows servicemembers to request delays or stays in court proceedings because of active duty.
As a parent in the service, you should not rely on the SCRA alone because the courts will not always approve your requests. You still need to make it a point to specify deployment dates, temporary custody and decision-making in your parenting plan. The court will view this as a genuine initiative to perform your role as a parent.
Common custody issues in military families
Military life creates unique custody concerns, requiring highly specific custody rules. The following issues frequently shape these cases:
- Temporary custody changes during deployment
- Virtual visitation when you serve overseas
- Relocation requests after permanent change of station orders
- Division of decision-making authority during extended training periods
- Holiday and travel schedules around deployment windows
- Childcare and school enrollment during long absences
- Georgia’s mandatory parenting time adjustment
Conflict may escalate into court hearings, which can be especially stressful for the children involved. Ideally, you should try to avoid litigation because it drains time, finances and emotional energy that you can invest in your child instead.
Build a plan that protects your relationship with your child
A well-structured parenting plan accounts for future deployments and outlines clear communication methods. Back the plan with concrete proof of your parenting involvement despite military duties so the court recognizes your role. Work with an experienced family law attorney who can use your evidence to build a practical plan. Remember, divorce may change your household but it should not break the bond you share with your child.